My computer clock says 12:53pm. Oh!! Daylight savings. That’s what PST/PDT was. Ok.
ARGH!
Dang it. why didn’t that work? the darn thing still defaults to 1:55pm. I don’t want to have to change it every time!
Frag it all to heck.
Is it somehow magically an hour later in LA? Oh well, I give up. All times are +/- 1 hour. Sheesh.
killing (lunch) time
I also got my hair trimmed on Saturday – we took the looooooong way – all the way down Fair Oaks Blvd. So from Sac to Carmichael to Fair Oaks, and then on the way home we went down Madison, so Citrus Heights back to Sacramento. Whew, lots of driving, but oh man, there are some awesome places along Fair Oaks Blvd. Soooo pretty, I’d love to live in one of those big houses hidden back in the trees with a creek running through my back yard!
Yesterday was a bit crazy in the morning at work, but I managed to get on top of things by the afternoon, and I had fun that night working on MDJ’s site, it’s almost done and ready to be added to my portfolio. Next step will be to get in gear on Christmas cards & gifts and stuff for the Cafepress shops. Dinner was almost a whole thing of strawberries dipped in dove dark chocolate ice cream topping – mmmmmmm. Followed by a couple tacos later that night. I’m always so hungry right when I get home, but then I end up hungry again right before I go to bed.
I think for lunch today, since my lunch date got called off, I’m just going to finish my leftover cheesecake from the Cheesecake Factory and play with the look of this blog some more.
Story of my inner life
Oh, and I remembered as I was trying to fall asleep last night that I was going to give a second bio of my personal growth. So instead of letting it run through my head and distract me, here are the first few chapters:
I think I was in second or third grade when I decided that I didn’t want to be shy anymore. I remember deciding this as I was standing alone somewhere on the Sequoia playground. I’m not sure what I specifically did to work on this, but now the only time I feel “shy” is when I’m in a situation that is overwhelming for me. One-on-one and small groups are no problem for me now. I’m not outgoing by any means, but I don’t cower in the corner trying not to be noticed either. In kindergarten I used to hide under the tables or under my mom’s skirt. I made only one friend in first grade (the start of my preference for boys as friends). And he got sent to another school after that, so I never saw him again.
When I started working in the school library during high school I started to get into reading psychology stuff because we had a subscription to Psychology Today and I thought the articles were really interesting.
The next big change for me happened sometime around my senior year of high school – when I didn’t have classes and was just working and taking a few JC classes until starting at the JC the next year. This is how I used to think in high school: I need to get good grades to get into a good college to get a good job to succeed in life and be happy. I would stress so much about this that I’d make myself sick, which resulted in this: I’m missing class, I’m going to get behind, I’m going to get bad grades, I won’t get into a good college, I won’t get a good job, I’m going to be a poor miserable failure. Which of course didn’t help with the stress. A very vicious cycle.
I think a high school english teacher, Mr. B. was the first to point out to me that all my illnesses were “stress colds” as he called them. That was probably in 9th grade, but it took a few years for this thought to finally hatch: I’m stressing so much about grades/school that I’m ruining my health – and it ISN’T worth it! It was like a switch got thrown in my head. My classes at the JC were a breeze once I started there.
Hmmm, I just realized that relationships are also where I’ve done a lot of personal growth too. Around that time is also when I stopped dating losers who treated me really poorly. I also started learning more about friendship too. But I think that’s enough for today! Till next time on Bunny-Talk! 
Oh! Keep your fingers crossed!
JP and Princess SP are supposed to go to New Orleans in October for their honeymoon – assuming Hurricane Ivan doesn’t decide to remove New Orleans from the face of the planet….. Bad Hurricane! Go to your room!
drama – random thought
Hmmm, I think I’ve come to the conclusion that being a woman involves having drama/issues/baggage/what have you – and yet somehow we manage to find awesome men to worship up as the (sometimes evil & twisted – but still divine/royal) goddesses/princesses we are. Amen!
Busy relaxing ;)
Wow, I kept meaning to post, but I’ve been too “busy” relaxing. So let’s see, quick refresher:
Thursday I went to dinner at Tapa the World – Spanish food is yummy! Friday I worked on MDJ’s website, that should be done soon. The new Illustrator and Photoshop are way cool. Saturday I went on an underwear shopping spree, bye-bye boring underwear, hello adorable panties! Hehe. Pink! Blue! Purple! Bows! Kitties! Stars! I went to Frederick’s, Victoria & Hot Topic. I also got some Happy Bunny stuff there, and I almost got the Emily the Strange kitty jacket that had kitties stiched around it and kitty ears on the hood, sooooo adoramable but they only had medium, and the hood was too small. I don’t know if the large or extra large would work. I found the http://www.emilystrange.com/ website – really nifty. 
Here is the one I was looking at, I think… it doesn’t show the ears on the hood:
http://www.emilystrange.com/
beware/buyorDIE/DarkNightOut/
kittystitchhoodbasic.cfm
hehe, they even play with their urls!
Ok, back on track, went to a bbq & played games, and lost at Cranium! Nooooo!!!!!!!! Fricking 3rd (out of 4 teams….) place. Sigh. We did end with 3 wins (or was it four with the first game?) at Sequence, which got us tied with the host. We also went to feed the ducks at the complex. And I almost fell in the water trying to jump across the creek part. But the ducks ate out of my hands and I got to pet them. Yay! So soft and cute!
Sunday was just for lazing around the house, doing laundry and dishes, watching “50 First Dates” (which I liked) and moving some stuff into my office.
Ack, doctor’s appointment, gotta run!
Exermacise
Well, doc appointment went well, don’t have to see him again, but he reminded me that I need to get back into exercising. So I’m thinking I might have to get myself a PS2 (since my dvd player isn’t working terribly well either) and a DDR game & dance pad. I think that might be the only way for me to start working out for 20 minutes daily. Especially since I haven’t started going out dancing again yet. That or I need to get one of those elliptical gliders or a treadmill to use while I read. Hmmm. About $200 for the glider, probably as much or more for the PS2 + game + pad. Maybe time to do some shopping around.
Archive of the Original LiveJournal Blog
Ok, I decided I liked blogger.com better because it’s easier to use and I can host it on my own site and format it easily. So basically this is the stuff from livejournal.com and from now on I’ll be posting here.
Wednesday, September 8, 2004
12:05PM – Meetings……zzzzzzzzzzzzz
I am amazed at how long my boss can just talk. Luckily he’s interesting and I brought water & snacks… but I drank all my water and really really needed to go tinkle by the time the meeting ended. Why is it I only get phone calls when I’m on the line or out of the office? No calls yesterday – 2 today during the meeting.
Anyway, you want cuteness and a way to waste lots and lots of time? Check out http://orisinal.com
Of the three avocados I bought I actually managed to eat two of them. I only had to throw out one, that’s pretty good for me. So now I’m debating following the avocado with an orange or part of a candied apple from the wedding. Decisions, decisions.
I got my butt kicked at checkers last night… checkers! I knew that strategy games like chess weren’t my thing, I don’t have the patience and I just can’t think that far ahead in games like that to see the consequences of moves… but checkers??? That’s supposed to be easy. Watch, next I’ll be getting my tooshie stomped at tic-tac-toe. At least I got revenge in the word finding game. Jenny the walking thesaurus. And no I’m not a walking dictionary because I understand the words, but explaining them isn’t my strongest suit either.
Oh! I’ll update my spiritual/emotional/mental growth at some point, but for a start I consider myself “HSP” – a highly sensitive person – as defined by Elaine Aron in her books. See http://hsperson.com for some info on that. But anyway, I love coming up with metaphors for things, so the one I thought of yesterday: HSPs experience a smaller but deeper slice of life. So we end up with the same amount of pie, but we get more filling and less crust. So basically since we experience things to a greater depth/extent, we end up not being able to experience the breadth of experiences that nonHSPs can. So it’s a trade off. We both get the same amount of pie (life) in the end. I was thinking about it because of all the sleep I need – events impact me more, so I need more rest and end up experiencing fewer events than my nonHSP friends, but that’s ok because I get more out of the events I do get to experience.
Ok, enough rambling, I think I’m going to have the orange.
Current mood: 
contemplative
contemplativeTuesday, September 7, 2004
12:14PM – Four day weeks are nice
I love 3 day weekends. I think we get one in 10 of the 12 months. October is one of the 2 that doesn’t have one, but I’m making up for that by taking 2 days off and GOING TO DISNEYLAND!!!! Can you tell I’m a wee bit excited? This is only my second time ever. 
This week is super busy too, I’m going out for dinner with people, or cooking in, pretty much every night. Luckily this weekend the only plan I have is to get my hair trimmed again. And I plan to keep it that way! I’m not leaving the house for anything else except maybe grocery shopping if I can help it. I’m just gonna work on my contract website and clean and read and sleep – lots of sleep.
Current mood: 
busy
busyMonday, September 6, 2004
10:08PM – busy busy busy!!!
Wow, so Friday was the Princess’ bridal shower. B did a great job, soooo much yummy food, especially this raspberry, strawberry, blueberry parfait thing, I had 2 there and took 2 home.
btw, this is diet crack: http://thecandybaron.com/detail.html?1057
just as crazy making in sufficient quantities – remember the giant ones? not quite as addictive – hence diet crack
Saturday I went home to see mom for her birthday (and I didn’t have to drive! Yay Yay Yay!!!) and we went to the beach. There was a ton of smoke driving through Sebastapol. The beaches were crowded so we ended up at Portuguese Beach. The weather was soooo perfect. We all had a nice time mostly lazing around. The water was freezing, but luckily I brought a change of clothes… I got a little wet after somebody threw a bowl of sea water at my back… just cause I splashed a little teeny tiny bit of water on him. =P
The ride home was cool, the smoke in the air obscured the sun enough to look right at it, it was this bright red disk in the sky. My camera was in the trunk though so I didn’t get a good picture of it.
Sunday was the wedding, which was nice and short, just how I want mine to be someday. I am absolutely not standing in front of a crowd of people longer than I have to. The food was great, and the couple was adorable. One of my best friends gave a great speech – which I helped him figure out the other day at work. And I got to see some friends that I don’t get to see very often. And the cakes & desserts! I’ve never seen that much dessert at a wedding.
I ended up watching Super Troopers (yes, it was funny) that night. And today has been lazy day for me. Sleeping, reading, more sleeping, tv – lots of Law & Order, and then more reading of email and comics…. and I’m now being told that I’m up past my bedtime, which I am, so I’m done for now!
=P
Current mood: 
chipper
chipperFriday, September 3, 2004
1:22PM – I think I’m addicted….
scaryblackdeath, this is all your fault! 
putting ideas in my head, you didn’t tell me blogging was more addictive than diet crack!
Current mood: 
quixotic
quixotic1:13PM – A fricking sieve I tell you!!
So I have a regular therapy appointment every Friday during lunch. It got cancelled last week. I have it on my calendar, which makes a sound and bounces to get my attention to remind me. My boss wanders in to chat, and I hear it go off and think “It’s just reminding me to take lunch.” So I don’t look at it and start blogging… and get a call at 12:45 from my therapist because I’m late. Argh! I love going to see her, she’s a great therapist and has been a big help. And it is only $10 to see her with my insurance. So now I have to make sure that I’m extra careful to pay attention to my calendar reminders. And I feel bad for wasting her time. I can be such a n airheaded doof. Oh well. That just trashed my mood. I could feel it swirling down the drain. Ok, happy thoughts happy thoughts happy thoughts!!!! Pink fluffy bunnies! Ice cream! Ohhh, this calls for emergency chocolate. Hershey’s nuggets are yummy!
Current mood: 
ditzy
ditzy12:01PM – Birth of a Vorpal Bunny
Since my mind is like a sieve (you know, one of the fine mesh ones that most things slip through, but random bits get stuck and they’re really hard to clean) and I don’t know who I’ve told what, instead of filling out the bio I’m just gonna do a (relatively) quick rundown on the most important stuff.
Born, yay!
Went to Sequoia Elementary. Survived that.
Went to Rincon Valley Junior High. Somehow survived that also. Finally chopped my hair short in 8th grade – long hair is a pain!
Went to Santa Rosa High School. I managed to take enough college & summer school classes that I was done a year early, but I wanted to graduate with my classmates, so I walked in 97 but I didn’t take any classes my senior year. Talk about senioritis! I just worked and took stuff at the JC.
Went to Santa Rosa Junior College. Somehow managed to throw off a lot of the depression that I had suffered from – my health, grades and happiness got way better. I graduated from there with an AA and an AS and High Honors and transferred to UC Davis.
I transferred to Davis as a Design major – mainly because it was an easy major to get into at the time. I actually planned to switch to computer science because I loved the programming classes at the JC. Then I tried taking ECS 40 – and I HATED it. Dropped out after a week or two. Luckily I found out that although I don’t have a knack for design (I have a good eye, but my artistic ability is somewhat lacking), I actually really enjoy it. I managed to take a web design class, and the html code reminded me of C++. I really enjoyed it – I got to be artsy girl and tech geek at once! My friend Paul told me about a student job in his department with the College of Engineering. I graduated in 2002 with a B.S. in Design.
I started looking for work and a house to buy. I found a house which I bought with my mom – she had the proven income and awesome credit, I actually pay the bills. We share a split interest in it, my way of thanking her for putting me through college. I got 3 interviews and ended up with 2 part time jobs – one of them being my old student job with the College of Engineering. The other one was at a K-3rd grade elementary school as a librarian. Gee, shy quiet bookish Jenny as a librarian, what a surprise. I even had the glasses and my hair up in a bun and everything. I did that until school ended.
I decided that trying to do a 40 hour/week job in 15 hours wasn’t good for me, so I decided to find a different second job. Which I did, but it turned out to be even worse. Mainly because I can’t stand to be paid to sit around and do nothing. I was the webmaster for a small tribal college. I would search high and low and ask everyone for stuff to do, and I’d maybe be productive for a 1/2 hour or so. I was a zombie from stress the 4 months that I worked there. Thankfully they finally managed to bump me up to full time at UC Davis.
I realized I didn’t have enough local friends to hang out with so I started making more friends by meeting people online. I’ve met some really nice people that way. I overdid things in June – too much socializing, not enough rest. And then July hit and I had no reserves. My neighbors got evicted and when another neighbor and I went to take the two kittens they had abandoned to the shelter, we found out that they had six baby kittens. The shelter was full so I ended up stuck with the 8 extra cats for a month until I found places to take them. Papa went to the shelter and Momma & babies went to the Yolo SPCA. The extra cats kicked up my allergies again, so I was feeling sick. Dad also went into the the hospital for surgery so I was worrying about that, and staying up too late and doing too much extra driving to go visit him. My back and head started hurting from all the stress. Between the exhaustion and pain I wasn’t eating much.
Quick back story, known since JC that my only pms symptom is depression (a boyfriend pointed it out). I found out early this year that Calcium, Magnesium and B6 vitamins can cure this, and for me they did.
Well, not eating enough, even though I was taking my vitamins, kicked in my pms depression on top of everything else. It was bad, and it didn’t go away when I was done being hormonal like it normally does. I realized I was trying to do too much and I needed to make some major changes to my life. I was even looking into selling my home and renting again in Davis, which seemed horrible because I love owning my home, it’s a good investment, and rent is just throwing away money. Thankfully I found a couple of really nice ladies to carpool with. I also adjusted my curfew to make sure that I get enough sleep. And I started eating better and taking St. John’s Wort. The extra cats being gone and dad going home and recovering nicely helped too.
So now I’m feeling really happy with my life, and just happy in general. I think that’s enough for now. I’ll save my personal growth stuff for tomorrow. I think this could get to be my new lunchtime activity.
9:31AM – I guess I’ll maybe sorta kinda try this out…
Well, since I really enjoyed catching up with a couple old friends by reading their blogs, and writing stuff down seems to really help clarify my thoughts, so I guess blogging will let me kill two birds with one stone. I get to update friends and vent at the same time. And it saves me from trying to journal by hand, I type sooo much faster than I write, and my handwriting looks like a guy’s handwriting – I need to add some swoops and hearts over the i’s or something. To work with me, more later.
Current mood: 
awake
awake