“I am not you, and what I need and want and what works for me is not the same as it is for you, so please just let me be me. You don’t have to understand, just accept.” – Me 
“Oh, and if you can’t understand or accept? Then feel free to get lost because I have enough wonderful people in my life that I don’t need to put up with your crap.” – Also me 
Task of the day: Forgive myself for not being able to be the kind of owner that I felt Calista deserved. I need to remember that finding her a better home was an act of love. Sigh….
Tora says:
All will be well… Calista will go on to bring happiness to others. But it is to your credit that you worry about her.