The exerpt I like:
Once you’ve won the heart, the trick, of course, is keeping it. Harville Hendrix, a marriage counselor and the author of Getting the Love You Want, counsels spoken appreciation. “Before my wife and I go to sleep, we name three things we appreciate about one another,” he says. Frequency is key. Saying “You were great to make coffee” on several occasions beats a onetime “You’re the greatest.”