Tip #1 – Many girls like massages.
If you’re not good at giving them, just state the offer with something like: “I’m not a massuse, but I can try giving you a back rub if you’d like.”
Why should you give us back rubs?
Reasons:
You get to touch us.
It relaxes us – it’s hard to get turned on when you’re tense.
If you’re lucky she’ll want to give you one in return.
It makes us happy.

Tip #2 – Many girls like having people play with their hair.
By play with we generally mean just touch it. You can stroke our hair, run your fingers through it, twist it gently and untwist it, fluff it, braid it, get a comb or brush use that, whatever works. It really doesn’t matter. Just don’t yank or pull on tangles.
Reasons:
Again with the getting to touch and being relaxing.
Gives girls a reason to grow out their hair.
Can help us fall asleep.
We think it’s sweet.

The start of the “guy handbook” from a conversation with friends. Started 6/2/05.