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lesson – the world is full of kind people who will help you meet your needs if you ask them in a way that will allow them to do so.

Full attention

Bids for attention. Defining boundaries. Defining self. Walls (too hard – Authoritarian crushes, too soft lassiez-fair won’t help, just right authoritarian) bouncing off walls/boundaries to take shape.

Peek a boo – tolerate surprise, uncertainty, object permanence

drop the thing, bids for attention