For the hard path we’re walking.

• July
  • https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/before-you-blow-up-your-asd-neurotypical-marriage-read-this-0525164/ Also applies to neurodivergent-neurodivergent marriages.
  • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/practical-mindfulness/202208/ultimate-mind-hack-flips-emotional-reactivity-calm
  • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/zero-to-six/202407/how-to-support-children-who-have-a-pessimistic-outlook
  • https://www.gottman.com/blog/is-my-partner-a-narcissist/
  • https://www.gottman.com/blog/why-is-my-husband-yelling-at-me/
  • https://lithub.com/on-writing-and-then-becoming-the-other/
  • https://youtu.be/5xbD9t8cM4M?si=kVDRVMIa8k-EIL89 (relationships are often important but not urgent until it’s too late)
• August
  • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/buddhist-psychology-east-meets-west/202402/how-to-set-boundaries-like-an-adult
  • https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/married-with-undiagnosed-autism-why-women-who-leave-lose-twice-0420164
  • https://www.gottman.com/blog/setting-boundaries-with-others/
  • https://youtu.be/VnlyslC5XvY?si=Y4wUHxT2QPQTCgGO
  • This is a good one (replace the infidelity with betrayal of trust) – I’m trying to get us to atonement: https://youtu.be/jM44siqfx2I?si=RFum67URU5PE4N7T
  • I think this was the book about it: https://www.amazon.com/What-Makes-Love-Last-Betrayal-ebook/dp/B0061Q640C
  • https://youtu.be/EBpF8sWycQQ?si=HwRWgP_6hM6nxxEg This talks about “tricky families” where it’s not so obvious
  • https://youtu.be/ssJmeqgQuVQ?si=Ta9JVyQjSo7QRaMX
  • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-freedom-change/201802/dismissing-attachment-and-the-search-love
  • https://youtu.be/CssOBe_hQ9s?si=9o0abARiTbT4plAL
  • https://youtu.be/rgQvqi6aYD8?si=l8ZBkA8gWtBz1jey
  • https://youtu.be/zvrCG5ePcME?si=D6SKTJWZynGp6Y3f
  • https://youtu.be/bEpPnTOu3ew?si=WBLBE5NOvWc4egoj
  • https://youtu.be/GndjYhgW5bo?si=55EwHPnVO3XYVCwX
  • https://youtu.be/dTfyrfnwouE?si=1XB9nZhGB5BD4rwP
  • https://youtu.be/IpaTJ53hpqg?si=5R4Qmz2yNft2d9H9
  • https://youtu.be/BJfmfkDQb14?si=jaJRVpI9oq6xtrZj
  • https://youtu.be/WjOowWxOXCg?si=OJ9a1wWg_BjrVNbX
  • https://youtu.be/xYBUY1kZpf8?si=cmEy4u26XMDF0Wm2
  • good cPTSD one, the memory formation part caught my attention: https://youtu.be/HJumPPoau7k?si=0SftZejac1yv-vth
  • https://www.parents.com/household-rules-8650858
  • https://youtu.be/_tVcKzGytBs?si=DDPs8aXLqf90jF51
  • https://adultchildren.org/literature/laundry-list/
  • https://theoatmeal.com/comics/believe
  • https://crappychildhoodfairy.com/2020/12/01/how-to-actually-help-someone-with-cptsd/
  • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/having-sex-wanting-intimacy/202408/5-signs-of-an-emotionally-immature-romantic-relationship
  • https://www.salon.com/2021/07/11/good-enough-parenting-starts-with-avoiding-these-13-abusive-behaviors/
• September
  • https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-build-trust-in-a-relationship-5207611
  • I was trying to find something that showed the same situation across all 4 styles, which this doesn’t do https://www.suchalittlewhile.com/examples-authoritative-parenting/
  • This is a good one: https://youtu.be/Qq6c2LnA9ok?si=BuIPZCPeztgTq98r
  • another good one by him (all his stuff is good but these are ones that I think you might connect with more): https://youtu.be/O7o4MdLe3kU?si=QrnLZnL9ACXtCtUN
  • https://medium.com/@tarasierralee_57910/disrespected-abandoned-unloved-the-emotions-behind-the-feelings-2095ea813978
  • https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-build-trust-in-a-relationship-5207611
  • https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Bitch%20Eating%20Crackers – an example of “negative sentiment override”
  • https://youtube.com/watch?v=wbIoa4zA9Vg&si=gry5sdH559SVrkrz
  • https://youtu.be/34GXGbyylHg?si=QrcZMIwF4IdGwPm1 more good Patrick Teahan
  • https://www.aidanhelfant.com/aip-88-my-journey-to-building-emotional-intelligence-as-a-man/
  • https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK568743/
  • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/childhood-emotional-neglect/202408/5-things-you-should-know-about-emotionally-neglected-men
  • https://www.attachmentproject.com/psychology/parentification/
  • https://www.verywellmind.com/parentification-types-causes-and-effects-7090611
  • https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/parentification